Horses are People,
too!
by
Keith Seeley |
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I know what you’re thinking folks,
‘this guy has flipped his lid’, but it’s
true. No, I’m not talking about the belief by some Native
American tribes that when people die they come back as horses
(or other animals). But it does make you stop and wonder.
Ok, so you still think I’m crazy and that’s ok.
But indulge me just a bit. Keep reading and I’ll explain.
You see, I’ve been around horses
most of my life. I’ve been a professional farrier for
the last 11 or 12 years. I’ve seen all kinds of horses
and I’ve seen all kinds of people. Driving on the road
from barn to barn, I have plenty of time to contemplate and
actually come up with ideas and make some comparisons. (Yes,
all on my own, thank you very much!!) Here’s the way
I see it. The behavioral aspects of both equine and human
are actually quite similar. How many of you can identify at
least one shy, timid, reserve person. This person would seem
to have a shell completely enclosing them in their own world.
It’s usually some mousy lass who’s so introverted
that it practically pains her to talk to a stranger. Now,
of all the horses you’ve ever known, can you recount
knowing at least one horse with these same traits? Think about
the facial expressions of the girl then think about the facial
expressions of the horse. See a similarity?
Don’t believe me yet? That’s
ok. I’ve got more. Ok, how about this one? How many
of you know someone who always has to be in the middle of
things. This person has to know the latest gossip, be in the
middle of any gathering of people, just has to be flat under
foot for fear of not knowing what’s going on. Got someone
in mind? Good. Now then, have I just described a horse you’ve
known? Some horse that’s always standing over you when
you’re trying to work, some horse that’s always
in your back pocket, some horse that’s got to be right
where all the action is?? Well? Ready to become a believer
yet? No?
Ok, try this one on for size. I’ll
try a different approach. Picture this. The eyes are narrow
and somewhat squinted with eyebrows heavy. There seems to
be a perpetual scowl on the face. The lips are pursed tight
and the demeanor and body language seems to say, ‘stay
away from me. I don’t want to be approached and I don’t
want to be bothered by you.’ Is this some crotchety
old man or is this another horse you’ve run across?
I think I can see a light bulb. It’s dim, but I think
you’re beginning to see the light.
All right, let’s try one more.
This demeanor seems to imply that ‘I’m warm and
friendly. I like looking clean, fresh and well dressed. I
don’t like getting dirty unless I’m made to and
even then it better be for a darned good reason. I like getting
dressed up to go out because I will get to be seen by everyone
and I’ll be admired by all.’ Ok, is this a young
girl just coming of age or another horse in that barn. This
one always seems to remind me of that shampoo commercial.
You know the one. “Don’t hate me because I’m
beautiful.” (Actually, this one’s my horse! I
can pretty much do what I want, but I’d better not plan
on her leaving the house, er, barn, unless she’s dressed
up and looking pretty!’)
I think you get the picture by now. I
hope you’re becoming a believer like me. The fact of
the matter is, horses have many of the same personalities,
traits, idiosyncrasies and even moods as people. You folks
out there who have been around horses a long time, have worked
with them regularly probably understand this as well, if not
better, than I do. You folks that are relatively new to horses
probably know someone who seems to be able to deal with, and
handle, many different horses. Some people may call this horse
‘whispering’, but I just call it understanding
horses. For you ‘new’ folks, here’s free
insight / advise. Pay close attention to the REAL horse people.
Those folks are usually quiet and very self-confident. They
don’t boast because they don’t have to. You should
also begin paying close attention to the horses at the barn.
Pay attention to what they’re doing, how they are acting,
and the expressions on their faces. If you’re around
a big barn, you’ll get to see lots of horses interacting.
My guess is though, you’re there around feeding time
and that’s not a good time to get a true picture of
things. Horses at feeding time resemble a school of sharks
more than people at that point. Come to think of it, people
having to wait in line at feeding time tend to resemble a
school of sharks also!! Nevertheless, try to start picking
out the horses that are timid and shy, the horses that are
overbearing and bossy, the horses that are nosey and curious,
and the horses that seem to simply say, ‘I’m pretty
and I know it.’ Start watching the expressions on their
faces and see if you can ‘understand’ what they
are ‘saying’. It’s been said that the eyes
are windows to the soul. I believe that horses’ eyes
are the keys to understanding their feelings and mental state.
Horses’ eyes are very good indicators as to how they
feel – wide-eyed with head up high, scared; narrow-eyed
with lips pursed tight and ears laid back, probably mad or
mean; eyes wide open with that ‘deer in the headlights’
look with the body rigid and tight, panicked and ready to
explode; eyes heavy with wrinkles over the eye lids and the
head drooped, probably not feeling well; and eyes bright,
soft and relaxed, they’re feeling just fine and all
is well.
Folks, it can take a lifetime, not to
mention a degree in human and equine psychology, to know and
understand all the intricacies of equine and/or human expressions
and body language. But with some practice, some honed observation
skills, and some guidance from a trusted ‘horse person’,
you can begin to see the wisdom in the phase ‘Horses
are people, too!’
Keith
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